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Arouse Each Other With Words

Susan's sex tip of the week centred on building her arousal using words.

It’s been proven in countless studies that women get more turned on by the anticipation of sex and the verbal promise of intimacy than the visual aspect of intimacy. Susan suggested that a text early in the day with a suggestion of something saucy later, followed by an email or a phone call.

When you do come together, whisper in her ear something exciting and sexy. Talking during sex is good but only if you have established an agreed level of vocabulary. Some women might be happy with really explicit words, others not so much.