Breasts: Three Things You Didn't Know
Breasts – don’t you just love them! She may feel they’re too small (or too large) – but he simply adores them, whatever size or shape they are. But here are three things you may not know…
1: She needs to check her breasts – but the traditional ‘once a month, at the same time of the month’, though still advised in many books and websites, is now reckoned to be a bad idea because it encourages us to ignore danger signs for the rest of the four weeks. Instead, it’s best to have general breast awareness; she (and he) should know what’s normal, size, shape, colour, texture – and feel regularly for signs of any changes. It’s change that’s the sign of something wrong – so be aware at all times.
2: He may well think it’s her nipples he should focus on – but often they’re not the most sensitive part of her breasts and almost always they don’t need the sort of rough treatment that a guy might feel is what she wants! She needs to explore for herself – then tell him - what really does work for her – the pressure, movement, pace and speed she really likes. Under her breasts is often an undiscovered erogenous zone, while using an ice cube all over may do it for you.
3: Breasts aren’t only a hotline for her – they can allow her to give him a lovely orgasm too, for simply pleasure and when it’s that time of the month and she doesn’t want vaginal intercourse. She lies flat on her back, with a few pillows under her shoulders to raise her, he knees astride, then either holds her breasts together, wrapping them round his shaft (not the tip of his penis. He moves in the normal way. If he ejaculates this way, he gives her what’s known as… a pearl necklace.