Deep throating
Yes, it’s every guy’s dream – for his beloved to take his penis deep, deep, deep into her mouth, so that his whole organ is caressed by her throat.Only one problem. Nature’s designed her throat to close up in response so she won’t choke. So it takes practice for her to learn to do that.
Guys take note. Don’t, repeat don’t just thrust way in unless she’s given you specific permission otherwise you’ll scare her to death as well as making her gag. Instead, if you want her to do it, ask if she’s willing – if she is, then she’ll need to prepare, often over several days.
Girls, if you’re happy to do this, then don’t move straight in on him. You need to rehearse first. Use a banana with the peel on (or a curved sex dildo or vibrator) to simulate your man’s organ – and begin by simply getting used to the feel of it at the back of your mouth.
But don’t insert too far – yet. Before you go the whole way, get into a good position. Because you need to make sure that the angle of your throat fits the angle of the banana – tilting your head back is one way, or better still, lie on your back on the bed and tip your head over the edge to create that slight curve that the fruit (and later, your man’s penis) probably has.
Then relax. This is important - the more you relax, the less your throat will close up and block the approaching organ. And breathe – through your nose not your mouth, slowly in and out, allowing your throat to open slightly with each breath.
Then ease the banana slowly back and into your throat. Stop as soon as it feels uncomfortable – and it will the first few times you do this. The aim is to stay calm, calm enough to take in the banana right to the back of your throat. (but not beyond, obviously!) - then moving it slowly and gently in and out.
After this, practise, practise, practise. And only once you’re comfortable with that, move to practising on your man. When you do, you should be in charge – in other words, you hold on to him and ease him into your mouth at the pace and with the rhythm you’re happy with. (Guys, absolutely no holding the back of her head…).
Yes, this one takes time and. And no, she shouldn’t do this if she doesn’t want and he should never insist. But it can be not only the most mind-blowing sensation, but also a wonderfully accepting, loving gift from her to him.