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Stay Sexy In Winter

Brrr, isn’t it freezing! So in our last programme before the Christmas hols, we thought I’ give you three passionate scenarios to get you hot-hot-hot during the festive season.

Playing in the snow
Simply walking in the park can get you feeling all romantic as you pass under frosty trees and crunch through snow drifts. Then start a snow ball fight – lots of running, chasing and tussling really gets the adrenalin going, though you may need to set handicaps (such as only using one hand for throwing) if one of you is better than the other so likely to win too soon!

Fighting will – almost inevitably – lead to rolling in the snow, and once you’re horizontal then the real fun can start. Yes, intercourse is probably out unless you dress specifically with it in mind (front opening trousers for him and a skirt for her – probably not worth the chill factor).

What you can do though is lots of kissing, fondling of breasts and testicles through your clothes, lying full length on each other so your body weight stimulates. Then find a quiet spot and try some swift oral sex. But don’t expect much action – the cold will tend to reduce his erection and make it hard for her to get lubricate. Instead, head for home and the mulled wine before some…

Log fire action
Few things are more sensual than a real fire. Add to the atmosphere by dimming the lights or placing candles all round the room, with mood music in the background Throw pillows, cushions and a soft rug down and have massage oil handy – put it in a shallow bowl and place by the fire to warm.

Then undress each other by firelight. Slowly, lovingly, one piece at a time, and lots of sensuous touching and kissing in between. Explore each other’s bodies from head to toe, then start in with the massage oil until you’re both relaxed and purring. If one of your Chrissie pressies has been chocolate body paint, now’s the time to break it out – though you may want to protect the carpet if you do!

Soft and gentle lovemaking now. Try endless oral sex from each of you to the other – time yourselves with one half of a favourite CD, and then swap places. When it comes to intercourse keep your eyes open – seeing your loved one on top of you is even more beautiful by firelight. PS Sorry to be over-practical, but check the fire is safe before you go…

Off to bed
Yes, bed’s not only the most obvious place for winter action, it’s often also the warmest! But just in case, ramp up the central heating a few hours ahead of your lovemaking session, and take a hot bath together first to get you both toasty warm.

You could also keep your PJs on- it can be incredibly erotic to stroke each other through fabric, then unbutton each other and reach inside…
 
Then, celebrate the festive season with something special! There’s still time to rush out and buy what the Japanese used to call a pillow book as a stocking present for your beloved – and if you do, then mark up your favourite positions and keep the book on the bedside table. If you’re not into sex manuals, why not buy a sexy movie (tip: she isn’t usually turned on by male-oriented porn, but there are now films aimed at women’s tastes.) to watch on the bedroom TV as foreplay.

And of course, the wonderful thing about bed sex is that you can slide gently into sleep afterwards. Just don’t forget to murmur “Happy Christmas” to each other as you do…