Prince Harry says being a Royal was like 'being in a zoo'

14 May 2021, 08:48

Prince Harry has said he wants to "break the cycle" of the "pain and suffering" of his upbringing
Prince Harry has said he wants to "break the cycle" of the "pain and suffering" of his upbringing. Picture: PA Images
Ewan Quayle

By Ewan Quayle

Prince Harry hopes to "break the cycle" of the "pain and suffering" of his upbringing with his own children as he compared being a Royal to "being in a zoo".

The Duke of Sussex, who is expecting a daughter with wife Meghan and is already father to son Archie, aged two, compared his life to "a mixture between The Truman Show and being in a zoo".

Speaking on the podcast Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard, he said: "There is no blame. I don't think we should be pointing the finger or blaming anybody, but certainly when it comes to parenting, if I've experienced some form of pain or suffering because of the pain or suffering that perhaps my father or my parents had suffered, I'm going to make sure I break that cycle so that I don't pass it on, basically.

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"It's a lot of genetic pain and suffering that gets passed on anyway so we as parents should be doing the most we can to try and say 'you know what, that happened to me, I'm going to make sure that doesn't happen to you'."

Prince Harry has previously revealed the emotional impact the death of his mother, Princess Diana, had on him as a child
Prince Harry has previously revealed the impact the death of his mother, Princess Diana, had on him as a child. Picture: PA Images

He added: "It's hard to do but for me it comes down to awareness. I never saw it, I never knew about it, and then suddenly I started to piece it together and go 'OK, so this is where he went to school, this is what happened, I know this about his life, I also know that is connected to his parents so that means he's treated me the way he was treated, so how can I change that for my own kids?'

"And here I am, I moved my whole family to the US, that wasn't the plan but sometimes you've got make decisions and put your family first and put your mental health first."

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He compared living under scrutiny as a member of the royal family to the 1998 film The Truman Show, starring Jim Carrey as a man oblivious to the fact that his entire life is a TV show, and to being an animal in a zoo.

He also revealed that he met up with his future wife in a London supermarket in the early days of their relationship and the couple pretended not to know each other.

Harry and Meghan are expecting their second child
Harry and Meghan are expecting their second child. Picture: PA Images

He said: "The first time Meghan and I met up for her to come and stay with me, we met up in a supermarket in London, pretending as though we didn't know each other, texting each other from the other ends of the aisle.

"There were people looking at me, giving me all of these weird looks, coming up to say hi or whatever but there I am texting her whilst we're shopping, asking if this is the right thing and she's replying 'No, you want the parchment paper'.

"It was nice with a baseball cap on looking down at the floor, walking along the street and trying to stay incognito.

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"Not sure how many times I've done that, trying to walk down the street and stay incognito is like 'whoa signpost, someone's dog', it's amazing how much chewing gum you see and how many shoes.

"So living here (in Los Angeles) now I can actually lift my head and I feel different, my shoulders have dropped, so have hers, you can walk around feeling a little bit more free, I can take Archie on the back of my bicycle, I would never have had the chance to do that."

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